By Mario Comegna
Masculinity, in its many dimensions, is undergoing a profound redefinition. The image of the "strong, tough man" that has prevailed for generations is being questioned and, in many cases, reinterpreted. Today, we see how gender differences are blurring and new ways of understanding what it means to be a man are emerging.
In recent times, attributes considered "masculine," such as physical strength, emotional toughness, and self-affirmation, have been labeled as potentially toxic. This has led to an identity crisis for many men, who face the complex task of redefining their role in a society that increasingly values emotional and gender diversity. It is no coincidence that, parallel to this redefinition, there has been an increase in sexist profiles on social media, where the cult of the body is celebrated and traditional stereotypes are reinforced. These spaces act as refuges for those who feel their identity is being delegitimized, reinforcing a hegemonic model that, in reality, is only one facet of many.
How many types of masculinity are there?
The answer is simple: as many as there are men. The idea of a single type of masculine identity is limiting and reductive, even though it has been the norm for centuries. While the hegemonic model—which exalts strength, independence, and dominance—has been predominant, there are many other ways to be a man. “Inclusive masculinity,” which advocates for sensitivity, equality, and emotional openness, has gained ground in recent years, promoting a model of manhood that connects with his emotions and shows vulnerability without this being seen as a threat to his identity.
Within this diversity, we also find what is called "hybrid masculinity," an intermediate model where men attempt to balance toughness and sensitivity without rejecting either. Masculine identity is not a rigid formula, but rather a set of expressions in constant flux, influenced by cultural, social, and personal factors.
What kind of men do we need?
The change lies not only in recognizing the plurality of masculine identities, but also in reflecting on which qualities are desirable for building a more equitable and healthy society. Men who are comfortable with vulnerability, who accept their emotions, and who relate with empathy are perhaps the answer to the need for a new, more constructive form of masculinity. It's not about abandoning traditionally masculine traits, but about broadening our perspective to include sensitivity, cooperation, and caring for ourselves and others.
What's going on?
The questioning of the traditional model has led many men to seek spaces for reflection and support. Workshops on masculine identity, for example, have become popular as places where men can explore their identity, share experiences, and find alternative ways of being. The reality is that this transformation represents a "crisis" in the positive sense of the word: a moment of change and growth. It is an invitation for men to break with stereotypes, explore new ways of being, and allow themselves to be what they were previously forbidden from being.
We are witnessing a historic moment in which the concept of masculinity is being re-examined and transformed. The growing movements that seek to promote "traditional masculinity," with their emphasis on the body and rigid gender roles, are a reaction to the bewilderment arising from this shift. However, their proliferation is nothing more than a reaffirmation of archaic models, which, while they served their purpose in the past, are now insufficient to address the complexities of modern life. True male empowerment does not consist of clinging to these stereotypes, but rather in finding a balance that allows for an authentic and fulfilling expression of what it means to be a man. The evolution toward more diverse and compassionate models of manhood is an opportunity to redefine which qualities are truly valuable and necessary for building an equitable and healthy society.